When Billie Eilish kissed a female fan on the Happier Than Ever tour, it wasn't a performance for the cameras; it was a moment of intimacy and gratitude shared with a queer fan. That is progress.
If a straight, male director forces a gratuitous kiss into a movie to get an R-rating buzz (looking at you, early 2000s horror films), that is exploitation. If a queer pop star kisses her wife on stage during a love song, that is representation. The celebrity lesbian kiss is no longer a monolith. It is a spectrum that runs from exploitation to empowerment. celebrity lesbian kiss
As a society, our job is to stop treating two women kissing like a circus act. The goal shouldn't be to have fewer of these kisses. The goal is to reach a point where a photo of two famous women kissing —because it is simply too normal to be newsworthy. When Billie Eilish kissed a female fan on