It is possible to break the trance. It requires discomfort, but the reward is rediscovering the city as a living, breathing organism rather than a machine you are trapped inside.
Walk through any major transit hub at rush hour. What do you see? Ninety percent of heads angled down at a 45-degree angle, faces lit by the blue glow of doomscrolling, email, or a mobile game. These people are not navigating the city; they are enduring transit time until they can be delivered to their destination. They wouldn’t notice if a mural was painted next to them. They wouldn’t hear a street musician playing a masterpiece. The city becomes a loading screen between Wi-Fi signals. unaware in the city
To be "unaware in the city" is not simply to be distracted. It’s a spectrum of selective blindness. It is possible to break the trance
This is the most painful layer. The city is the most densely populated place on earth, yet the unspoken rule is: Do not see. Eye contact on the subway is a threat. A stranger’s tears are an embarrassment to be ignored. A person asking for help is a potential scam to be avoided. We have become so skilled at looking away that we are no longer capable of looking at one another. We share elevators in absolute silence, breathing the same recycled air, yet existing in parallel universes. What do you see
Don’t be the ghost. Be the one who saw it.